Below and Beyond Offensive: Gotcha Day book review
Gotcha Day, the perverse label given by clueless adopters to the day they received their Bundle of Joy, is universally considered offensive by all but the most blindly entitled inhabitants of AdoptionLand.. Now there’s a book by the same name: Gotcha Day: a Celebration of Adoption. Some of us have been posting 1-star ratings of the book on amazon.com. I just posted mine: This book is below and beyond offensive. Gotcha is something you say when you catch a pesky mouse or stomp on a cockroach that been running across your kitchen floor for the past week.. It is not a term that should be used to “celebrate” adoption or the “gotten” adoptee. I understand why people would want to commemorate the day, but Gotcha is obscene. If I could give it less than one star, I would.Full disclosure. My adoptive parents used to commemorate the day I was placed with them. It was known as Betsy Day (that’s the name I went by most of my life–nothing wrong with the name, but it’s not me, and I reverted to Marley, derived from my original name, Marlene). Betsy Day was low key-not Gotcha! I cannot imagine either of my parents (or my Mama Dot who Continue Reading →