From Bastardette’s Mailbox:

A reporter is looking for domestic adoptees who have experienced adoption-related discrimination and bias that carried over into adulthood. If anyone fits this description and is interested in talking to the media about it, please contact the reporter directly at:

Susan Donaldson James
7 W. 66th St., 2nd Floor
New York, N.Y. 10023
212-456-4875 (office)
609-529-0268 (cell)

This may be related to the report the Evan B. Donaldson released today. When I get around to reading it, I may have something to say. Maybe not. You can find the Executive Summary with a link to the whole report here


Authors: Hollee McGinnis, Susan Livingston Smith, Dr. Scott D. Ryan, and Dr. Jeanne A. Howard
Published: 2009 November. New York NY: Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute
Document Type: Research (112 pages)
Availability: PDF Full Report | Web Page | Press Release | Executive Summary

This study, released in November, is the broadest, most extensive examination of adult adoptive identity to date, based on input from the primary experts on the subject: adults who were adopted as children.

The principal recommendations of the 112 page study include:

* Expand parental preparation and post-placement support for those adopting across race and culture. Such preparation should include educating parents about the salience of race across the developmental course, instruction about racial identity development and the tasks inherent in such development, and assistance in understanding racial discrimination and how best to arm their children to combat the prejudice and stereotypes they will face. Preparation also should include the understanding that seeking services and supports is a positive part of parenting – i.e., it is a sign of strength, not failure.

* Develop empirically based practices and resources to prepare transracially and transculturally adopted youth to cope with racial bias. This study, as well as previous research, indicates that perceived discrimination is linked with greater psychological distress, lower self-esteem, and more discomfort with one’s race/ethnicity. Hence, it is essential to arm transracially adopted youth with ways to cope with discrimination in a manner that does not negatively impact their identity.

* Promote laws, policies and practices that facilitate access to information for adopted individuals. For adopted individuals, gaining information about their origins is not just a matter of curiosity, but a matter of gaining the raw materials needed to fill in the missing pieces in their lives and derive an integrated sense of self. Both adoption professionals and the larger society need to recognize this basic human need and right, and to facilitate access to needed information for adopted individuals.

* Educate parents, teacher, practitioners, the media and others about the realities of adoption to erase stigmas and stereotypes, minimize adoption-related discrimination, and provide children with more opportunities for positive development. Generations of secrecy, shame and stereotypes about adoption (and those it affects) have taken a toll, as the respondents in this research make clear. Just as discrimination based on color, gender, sexual orientation and religion – all components of people’s identity – are broadly considered to be socially unacceptable, adoption-related discrimination also should be unacceptable. Professionals and parents also need to be better informed about the importance of providing diversity and appropriate role models.

* Increase research on the risk and protective factors that shape the adjustment of adoptees, especially those adopted transracially/culturally in the U.S. or abroad. More longitudinal research that combines quantitative and qualitative methods is needed to better understand the process through which children, teens and young adults progress in confronting transracial adoption identity issues. Additional research is also needed on the identity journey experienced by in-race adoptees – and, pointedly, more of the studies of every kind need to include the perspective of adopted individuals themselves.

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  1. Hey, EBDI…here’s a thought. What about putting your considerable resources towards opening records for adoptees and mothers, everywhere, and helping small families (single moms and babies) stay together rather than enticing the mothers into becoming brood stock and glorifying their separation? Nah…I didn’t think you would go for it.

  2. Don’t all adoptees in states that do not have open records “experience discrimination”? At least those who try to get their OBC, or search?

  3. Thanks for posting this, Marley! I’m going to send her a letter.

    What adoptees HAS NOT been discriminated against? That is what the title of her “report” should be.

  4. Ok, can we say “funded by adoption agencies”! Good frakken grief. You have to wonder what is wrong when educated people still bite into the adoption apple as if they can’t see the huge green worms in it.

    What a waste of time.

  5. Nevermind my last comment – educated my pink, fat behind! Adoption agencies covering their lies – like a hyena, eat what they can and cover the rest with puke so they are the only ones who will touch it.

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